A prominent Kenyan advocate David Oyatta has of recent been dragged into
the public "scrutinious-eye" by his wife Njeri Mucheru-Oyatta for alleged
adulterous escapades!
Njeri an avid blogger decided to 'slaughter' her
husband's infidelity 'errands' on her blog www.njerimucheru.com as a way
of 'unveiling' her husband's dirty-image and shockingly, in her
own words, " To help my husband who i still love to turn to Jesus Christ
and repent."
Fast switch to Uganda's platform, in under a month our
local media has been riddled with prominent individuals in the
born-again community publicly coming out and confessing their below the
belt escapades!!
The constants in both cases are kids fathered
else-where!!
But kids and sex are not today our drinking pot issues,
today we break-down the societal-illness of publicly 'rinsing' one's
domestic matters in a self-induced effort to draw worldly forgiveness, and
the move being labelled 'Godly' in cleansing one's physical and
spiritual image!!
Domestic affairs primarily involve two people and on a
more spread out scene, may involve more persons that are directed
affected by an issue or occurrence at hand. The route to seek
forgiveness, i believe should first involve the aggrieved/affected party
before it spreads out to the outer-coat of the second party that must be
equally directly affected by the matter.
Once you all find a common
ground to either forgive each other or part ways, that should be done on
a more personal disposition than inviting the whole world to poke ideas
and judgement on issues they are totally alien to! The decision to seek
God's forgiveness should be again a personal bargain and indulgence.
Seeking for worldly forgiveness when we are yet to find personal and
spiritual forgiveness is cheap public-pity purchase that breeds self
contempt and voluntary humiliation!
#Omukiga-Wekiniga
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